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How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

Is detransitoning a thing?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

What if I believe that gender is real?

What is gender?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

How to be a True Woman?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

Should I wait to date?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

Is there a gay gene?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

How does a boy become a man?

What does God have to do with my love life?

Will there be gender in heaven?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

What good is marriage?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

Do my desires have a morality?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

As a single, am I not a full person?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

Is it good to use a dating app?

What is married life about?

Why can’t she just trust me?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

Women in the Military?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

Did women lead in the early church?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

How far back in history does trans go?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

Is my body me or an accessory?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

How do I be a better husband?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

How could depending on her make me more me?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

How close can we get?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

Can you change your gender?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

Can someone who is gay change?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

Do you need a father and a mother?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

Do men and women use technology differently?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

Do clothes really make the man?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

How do I be a better wife?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

What Makes a Real Man?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

What does Gender have to do with God?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

Should I open the door for girls?

What will make my marriage last?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?