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Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

How to be a True Woman?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

How do I be a better wife?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

Can someone who is gay change?

Is it good to use a dating app?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

How could depending on her make me more me?

What will make my marriage last?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

How does a boy become a man?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

Is my body me or an accessory?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

Should I wait to date?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

Do my desires have a morality?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

How close can we get?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

As a single, am I not a full person?

What Makes a Real Man?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

Do clothes really make the man?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

What is gender?

Is detransitoning a thing?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

Did women lead in the early church?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

Why can’t she just trust me?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

How far back in history does trans go?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

Can you change your gender?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

Do you need a father and a mother?

What does God have to do with my love life?

What if I believe that gender is real?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

Should I open the door for girls?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

Is there a gay gene?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

What does Gender have to do with God?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

Will there be gender in heaven?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

Do men and women use technology differently?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

Women in the Military?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

What is married life about?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

What good is marriage?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

How do I be a better husband?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?