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How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

How far back in history does trans go?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

How do I be a better husband?

What does Gender have to do with God?

Women in the Military?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

Did women lead in the early church?

Should I wait to date?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

Is my body me or an accessory?

What is married life about?

Is detransitoning a thing?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

Do you need a father and a mother?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

What Makes a Real Man?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

What good is marriage?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

Should I open the door for girls?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

What will make my marriage last?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

Do my desires have a morality?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

Do clothes really make the man?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

What is gender?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

Can someone who is gay change?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

Why can’t she just trust me?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

Can you change your gender?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

What if I believe that gender is real?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

Do men and women use technology differently?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

Is there a gay gene?

How do I be a better wife?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

How could depending on her make me more me?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

How close can we get?

How to be a True Woman?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

Is it good to use a dating app?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

As a single, am I not a full person?

How does a boy become a man?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

Will there be gender in heaven?

What does God have to do with my love life?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?