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Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
What does God have to do with my love life?
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
What if I believe that gender is real?
How far back in history does trans go?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
Why do I feel bad about being a woman?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
Do men and women use technology differently?
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
Can someone who is gay change?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
Is my body me or an accessory?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
Is it good to use a dating app?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
What does Gender have to do with God?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
Do my desires have a morality?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
Did women lead in the early church?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
Do clothes really make the man?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
Should I open the door for girls?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
Do you need a father and a mother?
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
As a single, am I not a full person?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
Does the Bible talk much about gender?
Does the Bible say that women are saved through childbearing?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
How do I talk to my teen about trans?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
Does God belong in the bedroom?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
How should one define the word: "gender"?
Are women in more egalitarian marriages happier?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
Will there be gender in heaven?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
How could depending on her make me more me?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?