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Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
Do clothes really make the man?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
Do men and women use technology differently?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
Does God belong in the bedroom?
Why do I feel bad about being a woman?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
Should I open the door for girls?
How far back in history does trans go?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
How should one define the word: "gender"?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
Is it good to use a dating app?
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
Can someone who is gay change?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
How do I talk to my teen about trans?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
Is my body me or an accessory?
What if I believe that gender is real?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
As a single, am I not a full person?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
Do you need a father and a mother?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
Do my desires have a morality?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
How could depending on her make me more me?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
What will make my marriage last?
What does Gender have to do with God?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
Did women lead in the early church?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
What does God have to do with my love life?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
Will there be gender in heaven?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?