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How do I talk to my teen about trans?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
Is my body me or an accessory?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
Does the Bible talk much about gender?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
As a single, am I not a full person?
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
How far back in history does trans go?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
How should one define the word: "gender"?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
What if I believe that gender is real?
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
Did women lead in the early church?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
What does Gender have to do with God?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
Can someone who is gay change?
Do clothes really make the man?
Do my desires have a morality?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
Do you need a father and a mother?
What does God have to do with my love life?
How could depending on her make me more me?
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
Should I open the door for girls?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
Does God belong in the bedroom?
Do men and women use technology differently?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
What will make my marriage last?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
Will there be gender in heaven?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?