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Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

Is it good to use a dating app?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

Will there be gender in heaven?

Do men and women use technology differently?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

What will make my marriage last?

Did women lead in the early church?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

Should I wait to date?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

How to be a True Woman?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

As a single, am I not a full person?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

How do I be a better husband?

Do clothes really make the man?

Are women in more egalitarian marriages happier?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

Is there a gay gene?

Women in the Military?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

How could depending on her make me more me?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

Should I open the door for girls?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

Is my body me or an accessory?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

How far back in history does trans go?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

Can someone who is gay change?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

What good is marriage?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

What does Gender have to do with God?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

How do I be a better wife?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

What does God have to do with my love life?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

Can you change your gender?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

What Makes a Real Man?

What if I believe that gender is real?

Why can’t she just trust me?

How close can we get?

What is married life about?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

Does the Bible say that women are saved through childbearing?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

How does a boy become a man?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

Do my desires have a morality?

Is detransitoning a thing?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

What is gender?

Do you need a father and a mother?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?