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I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
Does the Bible say that women are saved through childbearing?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
What does God have to do with my love life?
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
Is my body me or an accessory?
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
Does God belong in the bedroom?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
Is it good to use a dating app?
What does Gender have to do with God?
Do my desires have a morality?
Should I open the door for girls?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
Will there be gender in heaven?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
Did women lead in the early church?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
How do I talk to my teen about trans?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
As a single, am I not a full person?
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
How far back in history does trans go?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
Are women in more egalitarian marriages happier?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
Can someone who is gay change?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
Do men and women use technology differently?
Why do I feel bad about being a woman?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
Does the Bible talk much about gender?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
What will make my marriage last?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
Do you need a father and a mother?
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
Do clothes really make the man?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
What if I believe that gender is real?
How could depending on her make me more me?
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?