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Which of us gives up the rock band first?
Do clothes really make the man?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
Are women in more egalitarian marriages happier?
What if I believe that gender is real?
What will make my marriage last?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
Do my desires have a morality?
How could depending on her make me more me?
Do men and women use technology differently?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
Is it good to use a dating app?
Can someone who is gay change?
My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
Did women lead in the early church?
Should I open the door for girls?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
Why do I feel bad about being a woman?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
Is my body me or an accessory?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
What does Gender have to do with God?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
What does God have to do with my love life?
Do you need a father and a mother?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
How do I talk to my teen about trans?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?
Does the Bible say that women are saved through childbearing?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
How far back in history does trans go?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
Will there be gender in heaven?
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
Does God belong in the bedroom?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
Does the Bible talk much about gender?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
How should one define the word: "gender"?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
As a single, am I not a full person?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?