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Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
What will make my marriage last?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
What does Gender have to do with God?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
Do men and women use technology differently?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
Should I open the door for girls?
Is it good to use a dating app?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
How could depending on her make me more me?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
Do you need a father and a mother?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
Do my desires have a morality?
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
How do I talk to my teen about trans?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
How should one define the word: "gender"?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
How far back in history does trans go?
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
Do clothes really make the man?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
Does the Bible talk much about gender?
Is my body me or an accessory?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
What does God have to do with my love life?
Can someone who is gay change?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
Will there be gender in heaven?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
As a single, am I not a full person?
Does the Bible say that women are saved through childbearing?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
Why do I feel bad about being a woman?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
What if I believe that gender is real?
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?
Does God belong in the bedroom?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?