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Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

Will there be gender in heaven?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

How far back in history does trans go?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

How do I be a better wife?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

How to be a True Woman?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

Can you change your gender?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

What is married life about?

Is my body me or an accessory?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

How does a boy become a man?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

What will make my marriage last?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

What is gender?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

Can someone who is gay change?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

Do my desires have a morality?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

What Makes a Real Man?

Is it good to use a dating app?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

Is detransitoning a thing?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

What if I believe that gender is real?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

Do men and women use technology differently?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

How close can we get?

Do clothes really make the man?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

Should I wait to date?

Is there a gay gene?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

As a single, am I not a full person?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

What good is marriage?

Do you need a father and a mother?

Did women lead in the early church?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

What does Gender have to do with God?

Why can’t she just trust me?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

What does God have to do with my love life?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

How could depending on her make me more me?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

Women in the Military?

Should I open the door for girls?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

How do I be a better husband?