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Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

Is there a gay gene?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

Women in the Military?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

Will there be gender in heaven?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

Do clothes really make the man?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

How does a boy become a man?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

As a single, am I not a full person?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

Do men and women use technology differently?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

Do my desires have a morality?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

Do you need a father and a mother?

What good is marriage?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

Can someone who is gay change?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

Why can’t she just trust me?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

What will make my marriage last?

How could depending on her make me more me?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

Is my body me or an accessory?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

Does God belong in the bedroom?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

How close can we get?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

Is it good to use a dating app?

How to be a True Woman?

How far back in history does trans go?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

Should I open the door for girls?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

What is gender?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

How do I be a better husband?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

Should I wait to date?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

Is detransitoning a thing?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

Can you change your gender?

What if I believe that gender is real?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

What does Gender have to do with God?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

What Makes a Real Man?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

How do I be a better wife?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

What is married life about?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

Did women lead in the early church?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

What does God have to do with my love life?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?