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Does "Queer Theology" work?

How do I be a better wife?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

Is it good to use a dating app?

Is detransitoning a thing?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

Can you change your gender?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

What is gender?

Will there be gender in heaven?

As a single, am I not a full person?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

What Makes a Real Man?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

What does Gender have to do with God?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

How to be a True Woman?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

What good is marriage?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

Do my desires have a morality?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

How do I be a better husband?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

How could depending on her make me more me?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

Is there a gay gene?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

Do clothes really make the man?

Did women lead in the early church?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

How close can we get?

Is my body me or an accessory?

Women in the Military?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

Should I open the door for girls?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

Do men and women use technology differently?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

What will make my marriage last?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

Why can’t she just trust me?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

How does a boy become a man?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

Do you need a father and a mother?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

What if I believe that gender is real?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

Should I wait to date?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

What does God have to do with my love life?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

What is married life about?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

How far back in history does trans go?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

Can someone who is gay change?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?