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What is married life about?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

Why can’t she just trust me?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

Should I open the door for girls?

Is my body me or an accessory?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

How do I be a better wife?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

Can you change your gender?

Is there a gay gene?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

How should one define the word: "gender"?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

Will there be gender in heaven?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

Women in the Military?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

What does Gender have to do with God?

Do clothes really make the man?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

How could depending on her make me more me?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

How do I be a better husband?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

Should I wait to date?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

Did women lead in the early church?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

Do men and women use technology differently?

As a single, am I not a full person?

How does a boy become a man?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

How far back in history does trans go?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

Is it good to use a dating app?

How to be a True Woman?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

Can someone who is gay change?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

Is detransitoning a thing?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

Do you need a father and a mother?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

What is gender?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

What good is marriage?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

What if I believe that gender is real?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Do my desires have a morality?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

What does God have to do with my love life?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

What Makes a Real Man?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

What will make my marriage last?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

How close can we get?