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I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

Should I wait to date?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

As a single, am I not a full person?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

How to be a True Woman?

Do clothes really make the man?

Do men and women use technology differently?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

What does Gender have to do with God?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

What Makes a Real Man?

Is it good to use a dating app?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

How far back in history does trans go?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Is there a gay gene?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

What will make my marriage last?

Will there be gender in heaven?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

How could depending on her make me more me?

Did women lead in the early church?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

What is married life about?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

How close can we get?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

How do I be a better husband?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

Is detransitoning a thing?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

How does a boy become a man?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

What is gender?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

How do I be a better wife?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

What good is marriage?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

Do you need a father and a mother?

Is my body me or an accessory?

Should I open the door for girls?

Can someone who is gay change?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

What if I believe that gender is real?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

Can you change your gender?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

Women in the Military?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

What does God have to do with my love life?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

Why can’t she just trust me?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

Do my desires have a morality?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?