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Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
What does Gender have to do with God?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
What if I believe that gender is real?
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
Do my desires have a morality?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
Do you need a father and a mother?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
Does the Bible talk much about gender?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
As a single, am I not a full person?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
Is my body me or an accessory?
What does God have to do with my love life?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
Do men and women use technology differently?
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
Do clothes really make the man?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
Does God belong in the bedroom?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
Is it good to use a dating app?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
Can someone who is gay change?
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria
How should one define the word: "gender"?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
Will there be gender in heaven?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
Did women lead in the early church?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
Should I open the door for girls?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
How do I talk to my teen about trans?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
How could depending on her make me more me?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
Why do I feel bad about being a woman?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
What will make my marriage last?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?