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Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
What will make my marriage last?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
Is my body me or an accessory?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
As a single, am I not a full person?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
Did women lead in the early church?
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
Do you need a father and a mother?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
How far back in history does trans go?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
Will there be gender in heaven?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
Why do I feel bad about being a woman?
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
What does Gender have to do with God?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
Do men and women use technology differently?
Does the Bible talk much about gender?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
Do clothes really make the man?
How should one define the word: "gender"?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
Should I open the door for girls?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
How could depending on her make me more me?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
What if I believe that gender is real?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
How do I talk to my teen about trans?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
Is it good to use a dating app?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
What does God have to do with my love life?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
Can someone who is gay change?
Do my desires have a morality?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
Does God belong in the bedroom?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?