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How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

What does God have to do with my love life?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

Do men and women use technology differently?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

Are women in more egalitarian marriages happier?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

How far back in history does trans go?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

Should I open the door for girls?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

What if I believe that gender is real?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

What does Gender have to do with God?

How close can we get?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

As a single, am I not a full person?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

Why can’t she just trust me?

How could depending on her make me more me?

Do you need a father and a mother?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

What good is marriage?

Do my desires have a morality?

Is there a gay gene?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

Is it good to use a dating app?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Did women lead in the early church?

What Makes a Real Man?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

What will make my marriage last?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

How does a boy become a man?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

Does the Bible say that women are saved through childbearing?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

Can someone who is gay change?

What is married life about?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

Can you change your gender?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

Is my body me or an accessory?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

How do I be a better wife?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

How do I be a better husband?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

Do clothes really make the man?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

How to be a True Woman?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

Women in the Military?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

Is detransitoning a thing?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

What is gender?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

Should I wait to date?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

Will there be gender in heaven?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?