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Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
Can someone who is gay change?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
How far back in history does trans go?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
As a single, am I not a full person?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
Do you need a father and a mother?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
Is it good to use a dating app?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
Should I open the door for girls?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
Do men and women use technology differently?
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
How could depending on her make me more me?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
Will there be gender in heaven?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
Do my desires have a morality?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
Does the Bible talk much about gender?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
Why do I feel bad about being a woman?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
How should one define the word: "gender"?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
Did women lead in the early church?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
What does Gender have to do with God?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
Does God belong in the bedroom?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
What if I believe that gender is real?
Is my body me or an accessory?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
What will make my marriage last?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
Do clothes really make the man?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
What does God have to do with my love life?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
How do I talk to my teen about trans?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?