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What does Gender have to do with God?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

Do clothes really make the man?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

Did women lead in the early church?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

Is my body me or an accessory?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

Can someone who is gay change?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

How close can we get?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

Why can’t she just trust me?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

What good is marriage?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

How far back in history does trans go?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

Should I wait to date?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

Is there a gay gene?

How does a boy become a man?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

How do I be a better husband?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

Women in the Military?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

How to be a True Woman?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

Do men and women use technology differently?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

What does God have to do with my love life?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

What Makes a Real Man?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

What is married life about?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

Do you need a father and a mother?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

Can you change your gender?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

As a single, am I not a full person?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

What is gender?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

What if I believe that gender is real?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

How do I be a better wife?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

Is it good to use a dating app?

Should I open the door for girls?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

Is detransitoning a thing?

Will there be gender in heaven?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

Do my desires have a morality?

What will make my marriage last?

How could depending on her make me more me?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?