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What Makes a Real Man?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

How do I be a better husband?

How to be a True Woman?

Can you change your gender?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

What is gender?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

Will there be gender in heaven?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

How far back in history does trans go?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

As a single, am I not a full person?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

Can someone who is gay change?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

What will make my marriage last?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

Did women lead in the early church?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

Do clothes really make the man?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

Is it good to use a dating app?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

Do you need a father and a mother?

How could depending on her make me more me?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

Do my desires have a morality?

Is my body me or an accessory?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

What if I believe that gender is real?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

Women in the Military?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

Should I wait to date?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

How do I be a better wife?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

How does a boy become a man?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

What is married life about?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

Is detransitoning a thing?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

What does Gender have to do with God?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

What does God have to do with my love life?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

Why can’t she just trust me?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

What good is marriage?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

Do men and women use technology differently?

Should I open the door for girls?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

Is there a gay gene?

How close can we get?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?