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How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
Does the Bible say that women are saved through childbearing?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
Should I open the door for girls?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
How do I talk to my teen about trans?
Why do I feel bad about being a woman?
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
Did women lead in the early church?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
Does God belong in the bedroom?
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
Do my desires have a morality?
Can someone who is gay change?
As a single, am I not a full person?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
What does God have to do with my love life?
What will make my marriage last?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
How should one define the word: "gender"?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
Do clothes really make the man?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
What does Gender have to do with God?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
Will there be gender in heaven?
Does the Bible talk much about gender?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
How could depending on her make me more me?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
Do men and women use technology differently?
Is my body me or an accessory?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
Are women in more egalitarian marriages happier?
What if I believe that gender is real?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
Is it good to use a dating app?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
How far back in history does trans go?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
Do you need a father and a mother?
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?