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Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
Should I open the door for girls?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
How do I talk to my teen about trans?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?
How should one define the word: "gender"?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
What does God have to do with my love life?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
Is it good to use a dating app?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
Will there be gender in heaven?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
Do you need a father and a mother?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?
Do men and women use technology differently?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
How could depending on her make me more me?
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
Why do I feel bad about being a woman?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
Is my body me or an accessory?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
As a single, am I not a full person?
What will make my marriage last?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
Does God belong in the bedroom?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria
Can someone who is gay change?
What does Gender have to do with God?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
Does the Bible talk much about gender?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
How far back in history does trans go?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
Do my desires have a morality?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
Did women lead in the early church?
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
Do clothes really make the man?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
What if I believe that gender is real?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?