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Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

As a single, am I not a full person?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

Why can’t she just trust me?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

How do I be a better husband?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

What if I believe that gender is real?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

Can you change your gender?

Do clothes really make the man?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

What does Gender have to do with God?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

What does God have to do with my love life?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

Will there be gender in heaven?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

Is my body me or an accessory?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

What good is marriage?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

Do men and women use technology differently?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

How close can we get?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

How do I be a better wife?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

Do my desires have a morality?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

Can someone who is gay change?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

What is gender?

Is it good to use a dating app?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

Do you need a father and a mother?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

How to be a True Woman?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

Did women lead in the early church?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

What will make my marriage last?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

What Makes a Real Man?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

How does a boy become a man?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

Should I open the door for girls?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

Women in the Military?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

Should I wait to date?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

What is married life about?

How far back in history does trans go?

Is there a gay gene?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

How could depending on her make me more me?

Is detransitoning a thing?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?