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What does God have to do with my love life?

Can someone who is gay change?

What is gender?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

Should I open the door for girls?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

Do my desires have a morality?

Is there a gay gene?

What will make my marriage last?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

What if I believe that gender is real?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

How do I be a better husband?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

What does Gender have to do with God?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

As a single, am I not a full person?

Do clothes really make the man?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

How close can we get?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

What Makes a Real Man?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

Did women lead in the early church?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

What good is marriage?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

How far back in history does trans go?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

Women in the Military?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

Can you change your gender?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

Why can’t she just trust me?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

Should I wait to date?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

Is detransitoning a thing?

How do I be a better wife?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

How does a boy become a man?

Do you need a father and a mother?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

How to be a True Woman?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

Is it good to use a dating app?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

Will there be gender in heaven?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

Do men and women use technology differently?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

How could depending on her make me more me?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

Is my body me or an accessory?

What is married life about?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?