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Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
What does Gender have to do with God?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
Does the Bible talk much about gender?
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
What does God have to do with my love life?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?
Does God belong in the bedroom?
Do you need a father and a mother?
Is it good to use a dating app?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
What if I believe that gender is real?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
Should I open the door for girls?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
As a single, am I not a full person?
How could depending on her make me more me?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
How far back in history does trans go?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
Is my body me or an accessory?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
Do men and women use technology differently?
Can someone who is gay change?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
Do my desires have a morality?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
How should one define the word: "gender"?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
Will there be gender in heaven?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
How do I talk to my teen about trans?
Why do I feel bad about being a woman?
What will make my marriage last?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
Did women lead in the early church?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
Do clothes really make the man?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?