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Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
Do you need a father and a mother?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
How far back in history does trans go?
How should one define the word: "gender"?
What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
Do clothes really make the man?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
What if I believe that gender is real?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
Can someone who is gay change?
Does God belong in the bedroom?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
Will there be gender in heaven?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
Do men and women use technology differently?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
Do my desires have a morality?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
How do I talk to my teen about trans?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
Why do I feel bad about being a woman?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
Is it good to use a dating app?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
What does God have to do with my love life?
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
Does the Bible talk much about gender?
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
How could depending on her make me more me?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
Is my body me or an accessory?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
Did women lead in the early church?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
As a single, am I not a full person?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
What will make my marriage last?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
What does Gender have to do with God?
Should I open the door for girls?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?