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Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

Should I open the door for girls?

How do I be a better husband?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

How do I be a better wife?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

How could depending on her make me more me?

Did women lead in the early church?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

As a single, am I not a full person?

What good is marriage?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

How does a boy become a man?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

Is there a gay gene?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

Is detransitoning a thing?

Do you need a father and a mother?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

What will make my marriage last?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

Are women in more egalitarian marriages happier?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

Is it good to use a dating app?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

Will there be gender in heaven?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

Does the Bible say that women are saved through childbearing?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

What does God have to do with my love life?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

Do clothes really make the man?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

Can someone who is gay change?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

What does Gender have to do with God?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

What is gender?

How close can we get?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

How to be a True Woman?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

Do my desires have a morality?

Should I wait to date?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

What if I believe that gender is real?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

Can you change your gender?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

What Makes a Real Man?

Is my body me or an accessory?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

How far back in history does trans go?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

Why can’t she just trust me?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

Women in the Military?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

What is married life about?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

Do men and women use technology differently?