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How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
Does God belong in the bedroom?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
What will make my marriage last?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
How do I talk to my teen about trans?
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
How could depending on her make me more me?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
What if I believe that gender is real?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
Does the Bible talk much about gender?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
Do my desires have a morality?
How should one define the word: "gender"?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
Why do I feel bad about being a woman?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
Is it good to use a dating app?
How far back in history does trans go?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
Do you need a father and a mother?
Will there be gender in heaven?
What does God have to do with my love life?
What does Gender have to do with God?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
Should I open the door for girls?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
Can someone who is gay change?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
Is my body me or an accessory?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
As a single, am I not a full person?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
Did women lead in the early church?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
Do clothes really make the man?
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?