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Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
How should one define the word: "gender"?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
Is it good to use a dating app?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
Do my desires have a morality?
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
Does the Bible talk much about gender?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
Will there be gender in heaven?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
How far back in history does trans go?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
What does Gender have to do with God?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?
Do you need a father and a mother?
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
Can someone who is gay change?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
Why do I feel bad about being a woman?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
Did women lead in the early church?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
How could depending on her make me more me?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
Do men and women use technology differently?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
How do I talk to my teen about trans?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
As a single, am I not a full person?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
Should I open the door for girls?
What will make my marriage last?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
Does God belong in the bedroom?
Is my body me or an accessory?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
Do clothes really make the man?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
What does God have to do with my love life?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?