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Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

Is my body me or an accessory?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

Should I open the door for girls?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

Do clothes really make the man?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

What will make my marriage last?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

What is married life about?

Is detransitoning a thing?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

Is it good to use a dating app?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

Why can’t she just trust me?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

Did women lead in the early church?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

What does Gender have to do with God?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

Do you need a father and a mother?

How could depending on her make me more me?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

How do I be a better wife?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

Can someone who is gay change?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

Do my desires have a morality?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

What if I believe that gender is real?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

What Makes a Real Man?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

What does God have to do with my love life?

How do I be a better husband?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

What good is marriage?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

How far back in history does trans go?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

Should I wait to date?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

As a single, am I not a full person?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

Women in the Military?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

Do men and women use technology differently?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

How does a boy become a man?

Will there be gender in heaven?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

Is there a gay gene?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

How to be a True Woman?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

Can you change your gender?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

How close can we get?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

What is gender?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?