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What does gender mean for me as a single person?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
Do my desires have a morality?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
Why do I feel bad about being a woman?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
How should one define the word: "gender"?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
Is my body me or an accessory?
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
What will make my marriage last?
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
Do you need a father and a mother?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
Does the Bible talk much about gender?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
As a single, am I not a full person?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
Does God belong in the bedroom?
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
Should I open the door for girls?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
What does God have to do with my love life?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
Do men and women use technology differently?
My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
How far back in history does trans go?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
Do clothes really make the man?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
Will there be gender in heaven?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
What if I believe that gender is real?
Is it good to use a dating app?
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
Can someone who is gay change?
What does Gender have to do with God?
How could depending on her make me more me?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
Did women lead in the early church?
What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?