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How far back in history does trans go?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

What does God have to do with my love life?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

Should I wait to date?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

What will make my marriage last?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

Do my desires have a morality?

Did women lead in the early church?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

What if I believe that gender is real?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

Can someone who is gay change?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

Does the Bible say that women are saved through childbearing?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

How to be a True Woman?

How does a boy become a man?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

How could depending on her make me more me?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

Do men and women use technology differently?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

Do you need a father and a mother?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

Why can’t she just trust me?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

What does Gender have to do with God?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

What good is marriage?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

What is gender?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

Is there a gay gene?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

Can you change your gender?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

What is married life about?

How close can we get?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

Should I open the door for girls?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

As a single, am I not a full person?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

Is it good to use a dating app?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

Is detransitoning a thing?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

How do I be a better husband?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

Will there be gender in heaven?

Is my body me or an accessory?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

Women in the Military?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

How do I be a better wife?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

Do clothes really make the man?

What Makes a Real Man?