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Does the Bible talk much about gender?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?
Is my body me or an accessory?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
How do I talk to my teen about trans?
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
Do my desires have a morality?
Can someone who is gay change?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
How could depending on her make me more me?
What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
How far back in history does trans go?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
Should I open the door for girls?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
Why do I feel bad about being a woman?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
What does God have to do with my love life?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
Did women lead in the early church?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
What will make my marriage last?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
What does Gender have to do with God?
My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
Does God belong in the bedroom?
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
What if I believe that gender is real?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
Is it good to use a dating app?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
Do you need a father and a mother?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
Do clothes really make the man?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
Will there be gender in heaven?
Do men and women use technology differently?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
How should one define the word: "gender"?
As a single, am I not a full person?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?