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Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

Can someone who is gay change?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

Do my desires have a morality?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

Women in the Military?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

How to be a True Woman?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

How does a boy become a man?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

What is gender?

As a single, am I not a full person?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

What does Gender have to do with God?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

What Makes a Real Man?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

Will there be gender in heaven?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

How could depending on her make me more me?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

Do men and women use technology differently?

What if I believe that gender is real?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

Do you need a father and a mother?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

Is there a gay gene?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

How do I be a better husband?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

Do clothes really make the man?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

What is married life about?

Is it good to use a dating app?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

Should I open the door for girls?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

How close can we get?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

What will make my marriage last?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

Is my body me or an accessory?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

How do I be a better wife?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

Should I wait to date?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

What good is marriage?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

Why can’t she just trust me?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

How far back in history does trans go?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

Is detransitoning a thing?

Can you change your gender?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

What does God have to do with my love life?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

Did women lead in the early church?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?