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How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
Does God belong in the bedroom?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
What does Gender have to do with God?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
Did women lead in the early church?
Is it good to use a dating app?
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
How do I talk to my teen about trans?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
Do you need a father and a mother?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
Is my body me or an accessory?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
Do men and women use technology differently?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
What will make my marriage last?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
How could depending on her make me more me?
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
As a single, am I not a full person?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
What does God have to do with my love life?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
Should I open the door for girls?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
Do my desires have a morality?
Why do I feel bad about being a woman?
How far back in history does trans go?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
Can someone who is gay change?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
Will there be gender in heaven?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
Do clothes really make the man?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
What if I believe that gender is real?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
How should one define the word: "gender"?
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
Does the Bible talk much about gender?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?