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Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

Will there be gender in heaven?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

Women in the Military?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

Is detransitoning a thing?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

Is my body me or an accessory?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

Do clothes really make the man?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

Is it good to use a dating app?

What does Gender have to do with God?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

What will make my marriage last?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

Is there a gay gene?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

As a single, am I not a full person?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

What Makes a Real Man?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

What does God have to do with my love life?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

What good is marriage?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

How does a boy become a man?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

Do men and women use technology differently?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

Did women lead in the early church?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

Why can’t she just trust me?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

Do you need a father and a mother?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

How do I be a better husband?

Can someone who is gay change?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

Do my desires have a morality?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

What is gender?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

How far back in history does trans go?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

How close can we get?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

Should I wait to date?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

How do I be a better wife?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

What if I believe that gender is real?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

How could depending on her make me more me?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

Can you change your gender?

Should I open the door for girls?

How to be a True Woman?

What is married life about?