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Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

Can you change your gender?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

What Makes a Real Man?

What is gender?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

Will there be gender in heaven?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

Why can’t she just trust me?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

Do clothes really make the man?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

Women in the Military?

Did women lead in the early church?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

How do I be a better husband?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

How close can we get?

How to be a True Woman?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

Is detransitoning a thing?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

Do you need a father and a mother?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

What is married life about?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

Is it good to use a dating app?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

What good is marriage?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

Can someone who is gay change?

Is there a gay gene?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

How do I be a better wife?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

What if I believe that gender is real?

What will make my marriage last?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

Is my body me or an accessory?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

Should I open the door for girls?

Do my desires have a morality?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

What does Gender have to do with God?

How does a boy become a man?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

How far back in history does trans go?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

Should I wait to date?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

Do men and women use technology differently?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

How could depending on her make me more me?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

What does God have to do with my love life?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

As a single, am I not a full person?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

Does "Queer Theology" work?