Real Questions Need Real Answers
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Can’t you see that I was born this way?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?
My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
What if I believe that gender is real?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
Do you need a father and a mother?
How far back in history does trans go?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
Is it good to use a dating app?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
What does God have to do with my love life?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
Does God belong in the bedroom?
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
Do my desires have a morality?
Is my body me or an accessory?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
Can someone who is gay change?
How should one define the word: "gender"?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
What does Gender have to do with God?
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
Does the Bible talk much about gender?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
Will there be gender in heaven?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria
How do I talk to my teen about trans?
Do men and women use technology differently?
Do clothes really make the man?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
How could depending on her make me more me?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
Should I open the door for girls?
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
What will make my marriage last?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
Did women lead in the early church?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
As a single, am I not a full person?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?