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How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

Is detransitoning a thing?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

Should I wait to date?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

How do I be a better wife?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

Did women lead in the early church?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

Can you change your gender?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

What does Gender have to do with God?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

Is there a gay gene?

Is it good to use a dating app?

Is my body me or an accessory?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

How far back in history does trans go?

How close can we get?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

Do you need a father and a mother?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

How could depending on her make me more me?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

Do clothes really make the man?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

How does a boy become a man?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

Do my desires have a morality?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

What is gender?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

Do men and women use technology differently?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

What Makes a Real Man?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

What if I believe that gender is real?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

How do I be a better husband?

Can someone who is gay change?

Will there be gender in heaven?

What good is marriage?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

Why can’t she just trust me?

Should I open the door for girls?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

What is married life about?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

What does God have to do with my love life?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

As a single, am I not a full person?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

How to be a True Woman?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

Women in the Military?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

What will make my marriage last?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?