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How could depending on her make me more me?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
Can someone who is gay change?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?
How should one define the word: "gender"?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
Will there be gender in heaven?
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
Do you need a father and a mother?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
What does Gender have to do with God?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
Do my desires have a morality?
What does God have to do with my love life?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
Did women lead in the early church?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
Why do I feel bad about being a woman?
What if I believe that gender is real?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
Do men and women use technology differently?
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
Does the Bible talk much about gender?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
Does the Bible say that women are saved through childbearing?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
As a single, am I not a full person?
What will make my marriage last?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
Do clothes really make the man?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
Is it good to use a dating app?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
Should I open the door for girls?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
Is my body me or an accessory?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
Are women in more egalitarian marriages happier?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
How do I talk to my teen about trans?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
Does God belong in the bedroom?
How far back in history does trans go?
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?