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What if I believe that gender is real?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

Is there a gay gene?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

What good is marriage?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

Should I wait to date?

How does a boy become a man?

How could depending on her make me more me?

Is it good to use a dating app?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

What does Gender have to do with God?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

How far back in history does trans go?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

What does God have to do with my love life?

How do I be a better husband?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

Will there be gender in heaven?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

How to be a True Woman?

How do I be a better wife?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

What Makes a Real Man?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

Is detransitoning a thing?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

What is gender?

Do men and women use technology differently?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

Women in the Military?

Did women lead in the early church?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

What is married life about?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

How close can we get?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

Can someone who is gay change?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

Do my desires have a morality?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

Do you need a father and a mother?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

As a single, am I not a full person?

Why can’t she just trust me?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

Is my body me or an accessory?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

Should I open the door for girls?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

What will make my marriage last?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

Do clothes really make the man?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

Can you change your gender?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?