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Should I raise my children as theybies?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

How far back in history does trans go?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

Do you need a father and a mother?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

Is detransitoning a thing?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

What will make my marriage last?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

How could depending on her make me more me?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

How do I be a better husband?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

Does "Queer Theology" work?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

Should I wait to date?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

What is gender?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

What is married life about?

Do clothes really make the man?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

How do I be a better wife?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

How close can we get?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

Should I open the door for girls?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

Is my body me or an accessory?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

What good is marriage?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

Can someone who is gay change?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

Women in the Military?

Can you change your gender?

Do men and women use technology differently?

What does Gender have to do with God?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

Is it good to use a dating app?

Why can’t she just trust me?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

What if I believe that gender is real?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

How does a boy become a man?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

Will there be gender in heaven?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

Did women lead in the early church?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

Do my desires have a morality?

Is there a gay gene?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

What does God have to do with my love life?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

What Makes a Real Man?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

As a single, am I not a full person?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

How to be a True Woman?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?