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How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

As a single, am I not a full person?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

How does a boy become a man?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

Will there be gender in heaven?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

Women in the Military?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

Is it good to use a dating app?

Do men and women use technology differently?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

What good is marriage?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

What does Gender have to do with God?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

What if I believe that gender is real?

How to be a True Woman?

How do I be a better wife?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

How close can we get?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

Should I wait to date?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

How far back in history does trans go?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

Is detransitoning a thing?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Do clothes really make the man?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

What is gender?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

Can you change your gender?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

How do I be a better husband?

Is there a gay gene?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

Is my body me or an accessory?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

How could depending on her make me more me?

Should I open the door for girls?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

Do you need a father and a mother?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

Why can’t she just trust me?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

Did women lead in the early church?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

Can someone who is gay change?

What Makes a Real Man?

What will make my marriage last?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

What does God have to do with my love life?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

What is married life about?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

Do my desires have a morality?