Real Questions Need Real Answers
Click one of the questions or tabs to get answers

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

Do men and women use technology differently?

How do I be a better husband?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

Do clothes really make the man?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

Can you change your gender?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

What does God have to do with my love life?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

Can someone who is gay change?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

How to be a True Woman?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

What is married life about?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

Is it good to use a dating app?

Is my body me or an accessory?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

How close can we get?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

Should I wait to date?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

Is detransitoning a thing?

What Makes a Real Man?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

As a single, am I not a full person?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

How far back in history does trans go?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

Why can’t she just trust me?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

How do I be a better wife?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Should I open the door for girls?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

How does a boy become a man?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

Is there a gay gene?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

How could depending on her make me more me?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

Do you need a father and a mother?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

Women in the Military?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

Are women in more egalitarian marriages happier?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

Does the Bible say that women are saved through childbearing?

What does Gender have to do with God?

Will there be gender in heaven?

What will make my marriage last?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

Do my desires have a morality?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

What is gender?

Did women lead in the early church?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

What good is marriage?

What if I believe that gender is real?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?