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My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?
Do you need a father and a mother?
Should I open the door for girls?
How far back in history does trans go?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
Are women in more egalitarian marriages happier?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
What will make my marriage last?
Is it good to use a dating app?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
How should one define the word: "gender"?
As a single, am I not a full person?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
Is my body me or an accessory?
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?
Will there be gender in heaven?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
Does the Bible talk much about gender?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
How do I talk to my teen about trans?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
What does Gender have to do with God?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
Did women lead in the early church?
How could depending on her make me more me?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
What if I believe that gender is real?
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
Do my desires have a morality?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
Do clothes really make the man?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
Does the Bible say that women are saved through childbearing?
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
Does God belong in the bedroom?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
Do men and women use technology differently?
Why do I feel bad about being a woman?
What does God have to do with my love life?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
Can someone who is gay change?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?