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My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
Do men and women use technology differently?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
Can someone who is gay change?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
Is my body me or an accessory?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
Do clothes really make the man?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
Should I open the door for girls?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
Does the Bible say that women are saved through childbearing?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
What if I believe that gender is real?
Will there be gender in heaven?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
Did women lead in the early church?
Why do I feel bad about being a woman?
How do I talk to my teen about trans?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
Does the Bible talk much about gender?
Are women in more egalitarian marriages happier?
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
Do my desires have a morality?
What will make my marriage last?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
Is it good to use a dating app?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
What does God have to do with my love life?
As a single, am I not a full person?
How could depending on her make me more me?
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
Do you need a father and a mother?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
How should one define the word: "gender"?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
How far back in history does trans go?
What does Gender have to do with God?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
Does God belong in the bedroom?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?