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Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

Did women lead in the early church?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

What does Gender have to do with God?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

Can you change your gender?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

How do I be a better husband?

What will make my marriage last?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

What does God have to do with my love life?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

How could depending on her make me more me?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

What is married life about?

As a single, am I not a full person?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

Should I open the door for girls?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

Do you need a father and a mother?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

How does a boy become a man?

What is gender?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

How far back in history does trans go?

Will there be gender in heaven?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

What Makes a Real Man?

Should I wait to date?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

Is it good to use a dating app?

Why can’t she just trust me?

What good is marriage?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

Do men and women use technology differently?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

Do clothes really make the man?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

Is my body me or an accessory?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

How do I be a better wife?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

What if I believe that gender is real?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

Women in the Military?

Do my desires have a morality?

How close can we get?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

Is detransitoning a thing?

How to be a True Woman?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

Is there a gay gene?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

Can someone who is gay change?