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Does the Bible say that women are saved through childbearing?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

Should I open the door for girls?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

What is married life about?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

Do men and women use technology differently?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

How to be a True Woman?

Did women lead in the early church?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

What is gender?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

Should I wait to date?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

What does Gender have to do with God?

What if I believe that gender is real?

Is my body me or an accessory?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

What will make my marriage last?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

How could depending on her make me more me?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

Do my desires have a morality?

Is it good to use a dating app?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

Women in the Military?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

How do I be a better husband?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

As a single, am I not a full person?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

Will there be gender in heaven?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

Can someone who is gay change?

How close can we get?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

Is there a gay gene?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

How does a boy become a man?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

Can you change your gender?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

Is detransitoning a thing?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

What good is marriage?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

What Makes a Real Man?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

How far back in history does trans go?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

How do I be a better wife?

What does God have to do with my love life?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

Why can’t she just trust me?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

Do clothes really make the man?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

Do you need a father and a mother?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?