Real Questions Need Real Answers
Click one of the questions or tabs to get answers
Does the Bible talk much about gender?
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
How should one define the word: "gender"?
Should I open the door for girls?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
Will there be gender in heaven?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
What does Gender have to do with God?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
How far back in history does trans go?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
How do I talk to my teen about trans?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
Do clothes really make the man?
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
Is it good to use a dating app?
Is my body me or an accessory?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
What if I believe that gender is real?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
Did women lead in the early church?
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
How could depending on her make me more me?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
What does God have to do with my love life?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
Do you need a father and a mother?
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
Why do I feel bad about being a woman?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
Can someone who is gay change?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
What will make my marriage last?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
Do men and women use technology differently?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
Do my desires have a morality?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
As a single, am I not a full person?
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
Does God belong in the bedroom?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?