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My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?
Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?
Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?
Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?
Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?
Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?
How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?
Do my desires have a morality?
I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?
Where is my job description in this marriage thing?
How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?
Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?
Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?
Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?
Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?
Is the Sexual Revolution Over?
As a single, am I not a full person?
Why are American women giving up on marriage?
Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?
How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?
Why are all these strange social changes happening?
I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?
How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?
Can’t you see that I was born this way?
Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?
Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?
What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?
The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?
Should I open the door for girls?
With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?
How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?
Can someone who is gay change?
Do men and women use technology differently?
Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?
Why heed the Bible's commands about gender?
What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?
Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?
How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?
Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?
Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?
What does God have to do with my love life?
Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?
Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?
Did women lead in the early church?
Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?
Aren’t there gay Christians now?
When can my boyfriend just grow up?
How should one define the word: "gender"?
Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?
How far back in history does trans go?
Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?
How do I talk to my teen about trans?
Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?
How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?
Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?
What will make my marriage last?
Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?
Why can’t the Bible just be cool?
Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?
Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?
Why do I feel guilty about being a man?
What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?
Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.
Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?
Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?
Which of us gives up the rock band first?
How could depending on her make me more me?
Will there be gender in heaven?
What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?
What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?
Who are the real gender-nonconforming?
Do clothes really make the man?
How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?
What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?
Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?
Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?
How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?
Can how I feel pleasure be changed?
Is pornography use an issue of manhood?
What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?
Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?
Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?
Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?
Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?
What does Gender have to do with God?
How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?
How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?
Do you need a father and a mother?
Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?
I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?
It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?
How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."
What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?
How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?
What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?
Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?
Why is it so hard to say how we differ?
How do I invigorate our sex life?
Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?
Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?
How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?
Should I raise my children as theybies?
Does a man need to be strong to be a man?
Does God belong in the bedroom?
Is my body me or an accessory?
In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?
I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?
What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?
Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?
If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?
Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?
Does the Bible talk much about gender?
Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?
Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?
Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?
What does gender mean for me as a single person?
Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?
How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?
What if I believe that gender is real?
Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?
Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?
Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?
As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?
Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?
How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?
Does the Bible commend bold women?
Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?
Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?
If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?
Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?
What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?
Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?
Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?
Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?
Why do I feel bad about being a woman?
Is it good to use a dating app?
Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?
What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria
Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?