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How shall I respond to our company's HR mandate on preferred pronouns?

Does feminism hinder women in their actual lives?

Should I be worried that Peggy spends all her spare time on football?

How far back in history does trans go?

Should I call my uncle "she" like he is asking me to do now?

My friend just told me that she is gay. And I say...?

Is Mattel Barbie a Feminist?

Will there be gender in heaven?

What does Gender have to do with God?

Why would God tell a wife to submit to her husband?

What do you want me to do, stay home and bake cookies?

How should one define the word: "gender"?

If we’re equal, why should he be in charge?

What will make the biggest improvement in my relationships?

What does gender mean for me as a single person?

Is it good to use a dating app?

Does "Queer Theology" work?

Can I, as a Christian counselor, support my client's decision to destroy healthy body parts?

Why do I feel guilty about being a man?

Where is my job description in this marriage thing?

Doesn’t the Bible denigrate women?

Why would God send the Messiah into the middle of a marriage engagement?

What Causes Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria

As a single, am I not a full person?

Who are the real gender-nonconforming?

Should my vision of being a woman include childbearing?

I thought boys were better at math but then why is my sister a nuclear physicist?

Should I as a parent think that my nine-year-old understands his identity?

Why does it matter what we do with our bodies?

Is it correct to speak of “anomalous males” and “gender atypical females"?

What are the costs of gender-imitative surgeries?

Aren't women inferior to men in the Old Testament?

What is married life about?

Why are all these strange social changes happening?

Can how I feel pleasure be changed?

How does one actually change from addiction to unwanted sexual desires?

Who is the Woman Clothed with the Sun?

What good is marriage?

Are women encouraged to speak in the Bible?

Why has Europe reversed course on administering puberty blockers to gender troubled children?

How could depending on her make me more me?

Does my seven-year-old daughter understand her identity?

What is the number one thing I can do to improve my relationships?

How come I can’t find a New Testament passage for our wedding without the gender stuff attached?

Did women lead in the early church?

Do the Bible writers progress in gender views through time?

Do I stay with my friend through his painful sex-change operation?

It isn’t possible for a homosexual man to enjoy sex with a woman…is it?

Does spiraling population have anything to do with gender disintegration?

Why are American women giving up on marriage?

Is it fair for a man with same sex attraction to marry a woman?

Does it matter to act differently toward each other in our relationship?

Is in vitro gametogenesis a good thing?

Can someone who is gay change?

Is detransitoning a thing?

The Bible doesn’t address transgenderism, does it?

How do I respond to my teen who says, "I am non-binary."

With self-chosen gender now, is there any future for girls' sports?

What do these intergendered laws in the Bible mean?

Is sexual attraction immutable, like ethnicity?

What’s really wrong with cross-dressing?

Jesus never talks about homosexuality, does He?

Do my current aberrant desires have something to do with my past?

Is the Sexual Revolution Over?

I like cooking. Should I let her do it anyway?

What does it matter that the one God is three Persons?

Is gender real or just...cultural stuff?

How close can we get?

Should I wait to date?

Do clothes really make the man?

Does the Bible talk much about gender?

What's wrong with consensual 'sex-work'?

Why can’t the Bible just be cool?

How should I respond to a Month of Gay Pride if I can't celebrate either as good for people?

How does a boy become a man?

I am getting married to be happy. Is that so bad?

When can my boyfriend just grow up?

Can’t you see that I was born this way?

What does the Bible mean, saying, "...but the woman is the glory of man"?

Do my desires have a morality?

Why is it so hard to say how we differ?

Do Trinitarian Relations of Origin bear on our relationships?

Why are there no women priests in the Old Testament?

Why do I feel embarrassed saying girls are different from boys?

How can I get help for these feelings I have that I don't fit this body?

Do you need a father and a mother?

Does the Bible commend bold women?

How come the guys in church don’t listen to me as a woman?

If there is no difference between women and men, why should women be equally represented on corporation boards?

Is there a woman apostle in the Bible?

Shouldn’t I be excused for using porn because men are naturally more sexual?

How come I cannot get my husband to stand up to people for us?

How do I talk to my teen about trans?

Should we have a knitting group ministry for gals in our church?

How do we inspire young men without demeaning women?

Should I open the door for girls?

Why would the Bible tell me to deny my same-sex desires when I did not ask for them?

Is there a gay gene?

Is my body me or an accessory?

Does a man have the same relationship with Jesus that I as a woman have?

Should I submit to my husband in decision-making when I am a better decision-maker?

Do chemicals and cutting reduce suicide risk for the gender dysphoric?

Is pornography use an issue of manhood?

How do I invigorate our sex life?

Why can’t she get off my back about reading to the kids? I don’t feel like it.

How should I deny my same-sex attraction when the culture says, "Don't!"?

As a Lesbian, does Jesus accept me ‘Just As I Am’?

Does teaching gender distinction in marriage breed domestic abuse?

Should I raise my children as theybies?

Are SOGI Laws sagacious or soggy?

How do I be a better husband?

If I have a boy body but feel like a girl, should I transition?

How can I deal with all these cultural changes that seem so bizarre to me?

I desire love more than respect. Is there something wrong with me as a guy?

Where can I get help interpreting the world of gender for my child?

What should we think that God thinks of our culture's direction?

What Makes a Real Man?

Do men and women use technology differently?

Why can’t she just trust me?

What will make my marriage last?

Is God's hand in the LGBTQ+ cultural movement?

Does it harm my teenage daughter to contradict false beliefs about herself?

How come the sermons are always about what I can’t do as a woman?

Aren’t there gay Christians now?

How do I talk to people now who believe so differently from me?

How do I teach my younger children how to be boys and girls?

Is it cool for boys to wear nail polish?

Is there an alternative to hormones and surgery for the gender-torn?

Can you change your gender?

How do I have a winsome conversation about the Bible's statements on gender?

What does God have to do with my love life?

Are there real differences between boys and girls growing up?

Is gender forced upon us by the discursive imaginary?

Aren’t women supposed to be nurturing, so how come my girlfriend isn’t?

What is the ultimate model of unity-in-diversity?

How to be a True Woman?

How can I help a Loved One who feels alienated from her body?

Where can I find a girlfriend who is not so high-maintenance?

Which of us gives up the rock band first?

Does God belong in the bedroom?

Does the apostle Paul tell the Corinthians, "Act like a man!"?

Can the Bible address "non-binary" when the term didn't exist back then?

Since when should we trust a doctor with a knife and a new idea?

Why would God keep my friend from true love in his gay marriage?

Are the same-sex-attracted 'born that way'?

Which is better, monogendered or intergendered relationships?

Does a man need to be strong to be a man?

Is there something deeper to the Bible's prohibitions against cross-dressing and men "laying with" men?

In the end, you need to look out for yourself. No one else can do it for you, right?

What is gender?

Is there a lot about gender in the Bible?

Does the apostle Paul have a thing against empowering women?

Does the Bible really tell women to wear head coverings to church?

Why do I feel bad about being a woman?

How do I be a better wife?

What if I believe that gender is real?