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Category: <span>Asymmetry of Origin</span>

Category: Asymmetry of Origin

The first couple was made differently, resulting in an asymmetry of giving rest and making secure. A man is a man in conquering a woman’s fears. A woman is a woman in being home to him.

The Adulterer, Karl Barth

The Adulterer, Karl Barth

By Sam A. Andreades April 4, 2025 April 4, 2025 0

On this infamous anniversary, we must ask, how can someone speak good when doing evil? For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.

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Do Baby Girls Have More Cooties?

Do Baby Girls Have More Cooties?

By Mary K. Andreades February 28, 2025 February 27, 2025 2

After my daughter’s birth, I asked a Hasidic mother of 7, “Why is a mother is ritually unclean for 1 week after she bears a son, but 2 weeks for a daughter?”

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But Woman is the glory of Man…

But Woman is the glory of Man…

By Sam A. Andreades June 6, 2024 June 2, 2024 0

My son is getting married this week. And my mind keeps going to 1Corinthians 11:7: “…he is the image and glory of God, but woman is the glory of man.”

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Competent to Care For (not Kill)

Competent to Care For (not Kill)

By Sam A. Andreades May 18, 2024 May 18, 2024 0

Quentin Tarantino’s “Once Upon a Time…In Hollywood” recalls a time of competent manhood and its play with violence. How do the two go together?

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Be Strong and Be a Man

Be Strong and Be a Man

By Sam A. Andreades January 27, 2023 February 2, 2023 0

David tells Solomon, “Be strong and be a man.” Is strength a particularly masculine quality? Does one need to be strong to be a man?

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A Hobby Lobby Conversion

A Hobby Lobby Conversion

By Mary K. Andreades January 13, 2023 January 14, 2023 1

A mother bravely faces an inner conflict as she prepares for her daughter’s wedding. What does the struggle reveal?

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She was Made from Him

She was Made from Him

By Sam A. Andreades September 23, 2022 September 24, 2022 2

The Apostle Paul helps us read the Genesis 2 story to learn masculinity and femininity. One was “made from” the other, the second great asymmetry of gender.

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Soul Mates Find Out Too Late

Soul Mates Find Out Too Late

By Sam A. Andreades June 10, 2022 June 9, 2022 0

Singles seeking a spouse by Soul Mate thinking sink. It is only a shadow of the Bible’s better way to date, via the deeper asymmetry of origin.

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Christmas in the Book of Revelation I: The Paradigm of Gender

Christmas in the Book of Revelation I: The Paradigm of Gender

By Sam A. Andreades December 23, 2021 December 29, 2021 0

John’s vision of Christmas in Ch. 12 of Revelation gives us how history unfolds, through the archetypes of gender.

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Note to My Younger Woman Self

Note to My Younger Woman Self

By Mary K. Andreades September 11, 2021 September 11, 2021 3

I recently spoke with a woman who was bemoaning how men and women do not equally share child care. I remember worrying about that when I was in my twenties.

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Is gender real? Does it matter in relationships? What does God think about it? So many diverse questions on peoples' lips today come down to the same thing: What does gender mean? Is it a construct of society or self-perception? Or is it a gift to foster intimacy and fruitfulness in our relationships?

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This site fosters honest and thoughtful conversation about the pressing issue of gender. I write from a Christian perspective, placing great value on the Bible's wisdom about it. But just understanding the Bible's message on gender is a big job for our time, and so part of what we discuss here. We also take up questions posed by our current culture's sometimes confusing views on women & men, relationships and identity.

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If you are new here, you might want to start with the Big Picture posts, Three Questions... and Want It In A Nutshell?, briefly outlining what I see as the seven main principles of gender.

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The posts consist of commentary on current events, excerpts from my general book, transgenderism book, or book on dating, Biblical exposition, praise for the culture’s gender goodness and ruminations on its errors as I see them. We also welcome guest posts from gender-savvy writers.

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