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Category: <span>Monogendered Relations</span>

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The features of romantic involvement leaving one of the genders out.

Change in Same-sex Desires: An Update

Change in Same-sex Desires: An Update

By Sam A. Andreades March 8, 2024 March 8, 2024 6

The falsehood prevails that sexual desires may not change, but compassion dictates being honest with those wanting it. Let’s keep the record straight for them.

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A Big Piece of the Helping Pie

A Big Piece of the Helping Pie

By Sam A. Andreades January 26, 2024 January 26, 2024 0

The 2019 book, Unwanted, by Jay Stringer, provides a useful tool for understanding and recovery from enslaving sexual desires.

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15 Years of Isaiah’s Experience—Happy Anniversary to Higher Ground!

15 Years of Isaiah’s Experience—Happy Anniversary to Higher Ground!

By Sam A. Andreades January 12, 2024 January 11, 2024 1

On a bitter cold winter night 15 years ago, in the upstairs level of a grocery in Greenwich Village, a small group of men met to take the Scriptures seriously on a matter of desperate importance to them: same-sex attraction.

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A Tribute to Tim Keller

A Tribute to Tim Keller

By Sam A. Andreades May 26, 2023 June 5, 2023 0

With the passing of Tim Keller last week, here are some fond remembrances from a congregant and mentee.

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The Trans-Gay Link

The Trans-Gay Link

By Sam A. Andreades May 19, 2023 May 19, 2023 2

I have friends who deal with same sex attraction and who also speak about gender confusion in their childhood or youth. What is the meaning of the connection?

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Marriage for the Same Sex Attracted?

Marriage for the Same Sex Attracted?

By Sam A. Andreades March 17, 2023 September 3, 2024 1

Many with unwanted same-sex attraction (SSA) wonder about intergendered union, “Is marriage for me?” The answer is a little more complex than for most people.

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How God Actually Changes a Life

How God Actually Changes a Life

By Sam A. Andreades March 3, 2023 March 2, 2023 2

Prodigal, the autobiography of Wynn Cameron Thompson, demonstrates the slow but steady move of the Spirit on those that God will simply not let go of.

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The Church Complicit: Review of Jesus & Gender by Fitzpatrick & Schumacher

The Church Complicit: Review of Jesus & Gender by Fitzpatrick & Schumacher

By Sam A. Andreades December 2, 2022 January 24, 2025 0

While it has its good points, this book is typical of the church’s and the culture’s current minimization of gender in relationship.

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Respect For Marriage: Is SSA as Unchanging as Ethnicity?

Respect For Marriage: Is SSA as Unchanging as Ethnicity?

By Sam A. Andreades November 18, 2022 December 12, 2022 1

The new act in Congress to codify monogendered marriage presupposes the immutability of sexual desire, like ethnicity. But research shows it is not so.

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Neuroplasticity and Change in Sexual Desires

Neuroplasticity and Change in Sexual Desires

By Sam A. Andreades March 11, 2022 March 11, 2022 1

The truth that in Christ people can actually change is fundamental to the Christian message. Neuroscience is catching up with the idea.

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Resources on Transgenderism

What's a Real Man? What's a True Woman?

Is gender real? Does it matter in relationships? What does God think about it? So many diverse questions on peoples' lips today come down to the same thing: What does gender mean? Is it a construct of society or self-perception? Or is it a gift to foster intimacy and fruitfulness in our relationships?

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This site fosters honest and thoughtful conversation about the pressing issue of gender. I write from a Christian perspective, placing great value on the Bible's wisdom about it. But just understanding the Bible's message on gender is a big job for our time, and so part of what we discuss here. We also take up questions posed by our current culture's sometimes confusing views on women & men, relationships and identity.

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If you are new here, you might want to start with the Big Picture posts, Three Questions... and Want It In A Nutshell?, briefly outlining what I see as the seven main principles of gender.

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The posts consist of commentary on current events, excerpts from my general book, transgenderism book, or book on dating, Biblical exposition, praise for the culture’s gender goodness and ruminations on its errors as I see them. We also welcome guest posts from gender-savvy writers.

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Read, think, and join the conversation!

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